Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Few lines on Life bond

'I didnt know where I end and she begins' this line was taken from book Anna Karenina, the character Levin is newly married to his love Kitty and the above line states his thought. Isn't it such a meaningfull and apt line to describe what one feels when newly married.

Marriage an institution wherein the two individuals are bond for life time. Marriage does change everything between the two, I don't agree when one says 'nothing is changed post marriage'. Your own soul gets extended to incorporate your partner, your way of thinking gets changed say you be more responsible before doing anything, you both exist as two physical bodies but one heart isn't this enough to call it a change.

Well with partner comes his or her likes and dislikes  which might not match yours but we do overlook them and at times the other overlooks there comes in compromise but in this scenario there is no loss of either as the happiness is found in each other, seeing one happy is happiness for the other, what a special relation isn't it. It  might exist between any family relation  and friends but this is truly special as you live with this relation each and every day.

Everyday is not sunday, thus there may be ups and down in relation but to speak it out and clearing the issue is the key for the happy tomorrow.  'Silence speaks' doesn't work here as a matter of fact it doesn't work where there is issue. According to me if there is any misunderstanding or indifference just talk it out and get it clean off is the way to go. Who knows will there be a tomorrow or not!! 'Life is short make it sweet'.

Kitty and Levin's love story in the novel is simple and am sure to which many can relate in real life.  A relation where there is place for jealousy too and yet at the end of day you are sure that those eyes of your partner were just meant to see only you.

Life is truly a merry go round, in which marriage is a prime loop which surely is loaded with ups and down. One has to cling to the other and viceversa and ride along this and the end sure to see Happy Family just as in Levin and Kitty do.