Pals

Time spent with them will never fade, even pass decades. They are precious friends.

As life goes we meet people, right from the time we enter this world to till we leave we are part of this amazing human network. Some people we meet become best pals, that first hello or first smile to a stranger can lead to a long way, it has in my case.

I am a sort were I can't jump into people and make friends easily, I am social but to call a person as my friend it takes time. Once I call never it will fade but I do have few instances where it has been bad but I take it for good because those bad moments gave me my friends who are till date best. I have seen people who can just make friends on a fly but mostly the relation is short lived, have come across such mainly when they have some benefit personally call them opportunist I am victim of such people too but again its fine with me no worries as there are so many people around and when this happened I was still in my teens, if this would have happened in my twenties I would be hurt not from the other person but because of my inability to see the true self in other person and thankfully this has never happened. All bitter experience with people in schooling and teens have taught me a lot and that's what made me have a small circle of friend who I can call as best on any day of my life. I had never intended to become best pal looking at a person all my best pals just happened as a matter of time, I didn't even realize when the relation between that stranger and me turned into a beautiful bond of friendship.

Life'z been busy for all of us now as most of us have our own family to take care, career to run behind amidst all these its nice to be in contact with all friends thanks to the emails which have made communication so much easy and fly through. Personally I do a strict no to social networks as I find them extremely public though you can make conversation private some how I am uncomfortable to chat with my buddies thorough it I would rather prefer a private email. It feels sad some times that we can't catch up as old times as we have so much on our plate already or because of distance between us but also good at least we know whats happening in each others life.Its nice thing when stranger become friend but not when friend turns to a stranger. As life goes on making friends isn't easy as at work we come across colleagues a sense of competition,ego, comparison too much of negatively the place truly not for friendship if not everywhere in most of scenario its a fact. The old buddies are the one who will never change for you so treasure them, be in touch with them life isn't so busy that you can't spare few minutes one day to write to your friends or even talk to them don't wait for it to come from the other end its not a client requirement you see. I was lost too in my own world as I write my thoughts thinking of my friends paralley emailed them too :)