Flash Back

Few instances in my life, which have taught me a lesson:

In my school days I had a hobby of collecting proverbs, in my dairy I have over thousands of them. One of my friend had asked me, what's the use of collecting and writing them, I then had just replied its my hobby and I liked writing down the lines which meant me, which inspired me. One day I started to read my collection, few lines made me confident, few thrilled, few made me understand way of life basically they taught me to be better and from then on I always read my collection. This taught me to do what I like and without thinking whether it will be of any use or not, I look this instance as an analogy to my daily life too, do what you want and like without bothering what you get from doing it even the momentary bliss you get from doing what you like is enough.

My Grandpa always emphasized on grammar of English language, he used to throw questions to me and my cousins every time he used to say English is very important, learn the basics of language, having good command over the language is very essential to be successful in any field. As a kid we all were eager to get away form this lecture as quickly as we can but over the years those words of his kept on lingering in my mind, every time I prepared for competitive exams I understood how shallow my knowledge of English was, I always thought if one knows to speak and write that was enough but I failed to understand how important it is to know Grammar, the semantics of the language I regret it today as I am not fluent writer, words don't flow out of me nor a avid reader hope I overcome both of these, better late than never.Wish I had continued my habit of story writing.

My Mom put me into Bharatanatyam dance class, I did really like it and did a stage show too. In between we shifted our home and in the new vicinity there were lots of kids, playing took a priority over my dance classes and those classes went for toss, I discontinued them and regret it till date. As a kid sure I was distracted and we all do but loss is too much to repair. Listen to elders may not be always but they now better than us and have better perspective than us experience teaches everybody good take from this for me was remain focus and determined in what you want no matter what comes over.

I could never be friendly to person who as once spoiled the friendly space between us, any act which hurt me by the other person was enough reason for me to distance me from that person. But lately, I have realized that giving other chance to the relation is really worth it. No body is perfect we all make mistakes accepting a person in spite of his or her negatives is how life goes on, its is how we happen to make few friends for life time that's the reality. One way if you think, it gives a better bonding that way because you know the true nature of person and it won't hurt you as you are well aware of other person's attitude. If you like or love a person accept them as they are, it's not true only in case of life partners it does mean to any kind of relationship in life.